Now and then, Americans go through a spasm of nativism. It happened when the Irish immigration waves began in the 1840s, it happened again in the World War I era, and it is happening now. The gist of nativism is that immigration is bad, we should reduce it, that ‘those people’ are not like ‘us’ because they look/sound/worship/eat ‘differently.’ And of course, that they will be the death and destruction of us.
Protip: the problem is not when people are waiting in long lines, following years-long processes, and sneaking across borders to get into your country. That is a sign of health. The problem is when they cease coming, and when your own people begin leaving.
We may differ on the definition of ‘immigrant.’ Fine; use your own definition. Myself, I have reached the point where I no longer care whether a person followed the process; I care only that, if I know about a person only his or her immigration/legality status, and his or her level of xenophobia and hatred, I know I’d rather have the xenophobic hatred go somewhere else, and I’d rather the non-native took that spot. Put another way, I like even the illegal aliens better than I like the native-born people who have made it a life’s mission to hate them. I would rather live next to the illegal aliens than those who have made xenophobia a philosophy. I feel that even the illegal aliens are doing more good for my country than people who would turn it to a police state to get rid of them. And thanks both to the stupid, pernicious redefinition of the word ‘immigrant’ to include people who did not actually follow an immigration process, which was a wrapped gift to nativist xenophobia, here’s the reality: everyone who wasn’t born here is feeling scared, hated, rejected, unwanted, disrespected, unvalued, and seriously rethinking the decision to live here. Even those who have become citizens.
I’m not taking this shit.
That is not my country. If it’s war to the knife for the American soul, then it’s time to draw the rhetorical steel. Xenophobia has already drawn and slashed away. It isn’t owed a warning.
If your vision of America is a diverse nation that embraces many accents, races, faiths, cultures, and ideas, then you probably value immigration in some form. If you do, then you could tell them. I have begun to do so. My wife has followed suit.
The method is simple. English is a very difficult language to speak without an accent; take that from someone who has learned a number of foreign languages. Most persons who speak with foreign accents were not born here. If it’s important to you, you can ask the person where he or she is from, or what is his or her native language. The only issue is that you wouldn’t want to do this with anyone born here, so however you ascertain that is up to your good sense. And it should be a person whose positive impact you would like to recognize–hard work, kindness, goodwill, whatever. I’m not here to tell you what moves you.
When you do, take a quiet moment, and say something kind and welcoming. “Thank you for coming to this country. I’m glad you’re here. You’ve made it better.” Whatever expresses your feelings; I’m not here to tell you what those should be, what words to use. Just let that person know that America isn’t entirely the wall of xenophobic hatred it has begun to resemble.
Chances are it’s the first time he or she has heard that. You would not believe the results.
- My dentist wept openly.
- My doctor smiled a most unreserved Anglo-Scottish smile.
- The owner of our favorite Middle Eastern restaurant looked very much as if he would cry.
- A jewelry salesperson lit up with joy.
In every case, it has made a difference for someone who was feeling confusion, fear, rejection, mixed emotions. In every case, I have been glad I did.
I’m going to keep it up. I’ve had it with this bigoted crap. If I’m going to hate anyone, it’s going to be bigots, not people who came to my country and did something to make it better. This bigotry crap may, deep down, represent what America truly is overall, but I’ve never wanted to belong to very many groups, and it doesn’t represent me. It is not necessary to be tolerant of intolerance; that’s fourth-grade logic meant to clear a space for hate. Tolerance of intolerance eventually destroys all tolerance, which is why the intolerant demand their own tolerance–it’s just a slash in that war to the knife, at a spot they imagine to be vulnerable.
I will not be silent, and thus let membership be assumed of me.
If you, like me, look around at the accentless grandchildren of the Vietnamese boat people and smile at their impact; if you look at the accentless children of the Bosnian refugees and smile at their impact; if you look at the survivors of African violence and smile at their impact…then there are at least some immigrants you like. Good; we can work with it. Feel free to say something to those who came from elsewhere, for your own reasons, in your own words, by your own choice, as the situation moves you.
Every time you do, you slash back against nativist hate.
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Well said, I’m from the UK but this applies equally here.
Thanks, Georgia. I am glad you feel that way.
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Come here legally as my grandparents did. Wait your turn.While waiting learn our language and customs as may here have done for you. Don’t climb under the fence and hide in the dark corners unable to work because you have no papers. Then commit crimes to be able to live here.Don’t expect our government people to learn your language or adjust our laws to enable you to be here illegally Prove you want to live an thrive here by assimilating our ways and customs as I have done when legally living in other countries. You disrespect us by believing that you can be here without coming here as LEGAL IMMIGRANTS.
I used to feel that way, Robin. Then I saw what was at the heart of that sort of thought, and decided I liked the illegal aliens better than what I saw at that heart. Simple as that.
Hi nephew! Hope Deb is back to her old self soon. Sure do miss you guys. I love this blog and would like to share it with my FB friends. Would that be OK? Love, Auntie
Thank you, Aunt Jaque. By all means feel free to share it.
While we are on the topic, those people who read the post carefully–rather than responding to things I did not assert–can see that I left the definition of ‘immigrant’ up to the individual, rather explicitly. Quibbling over that definition misses the point, which is that even those newcomers who crossed every T and dotted every I in the process are feeling unwelcomed, disliked, rejected. Perhaps broad, ill-founded assumptions about legality are partly to blame.